* The practices and exercises in the 7 Pillars of Winning are grounded in published research.
The 7 Pillars are Michael Brown's practical, everyday take on things researchers have studied for decades: self-control, responsibility, gratitude, resilience, character, family connection, purpose, and how habits form. The daily reps are our own adaptations for families. The studies below are the research they're built on, not tests of this program.
This list is growing. We add to it and update it regularly. Spot a study we should read? Contact us.
Self-discipline outdoes IQ in predicting academic performance of adolescents
Duckworth et al. (2005), Psychological Science. In eighth graders, self-discipline predicted grades and other school outcomes better than IQ did.
A gradient of childhood self-control predicts health, wealth, and public safety
Moffitt et al. (2011), Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. In a group of about 1,000 children followed into their 30s, more self-control in childhood went with better adult health, finances, and fewer criminal convictions.
Self-determination theory and the facilitation of intrinsic motivation, social development, and well-being
Ryan et al. (2000), American Psychologist. People are more motivated, and do better, when they feel some choice (autonomy), feel capable, and feel connected.
Parent styles associated with children's self-regulation and competence in school
Grolnick et al. (1989), Journal of Educational Psychology. Children whose parents supported their independence (rather than controlling everything) showed more self-regulation and competence at school.
Associations between household chores and childhood self-competency
White et al. (2019), Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics. In nearly 10,000 U.S. children, doing chores more often in kindergarten was linked with stronger social, academic, and life-satisfaction self-ratings in third grade.
Executive functions and household chores: Does engagement in chores predict children's cognition?
Tepper et al. (2022), Australian Occupational Therapy Journal. Among children aged 5–13, doing self-care and family-care chores was linked with better working memory and self-control (parent-reported).
Counting blessings in early adolescents: An experimental study of gratitude and subjective well-being
Froh et al. (2008), Journal of School Psychology. Middle schoolers who regularly listed things they were grateful for reported more gratitude and optimism and less negative mood than comparison groups.
Gratitude and subjective well-being in early adolescence: Examining gender differences
Froh et al. (2009), Journal of Adolescence. In young adolescents, gratitude went along with more positive mood, life satisfaction, and feeling supported by family and friends.
Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life
Emmons et al. (2003), Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. The classic study (in adults) showing that a simple, regular gratitude practice improved well-being compared with listing hassles.
Ordinary magic: Resilience processes in development
Masten (2001), American Psychologist. Resilience isn't rare. It grows from ordinary things like caring relationships, problem-solving, and self-control.
Physical activity for cognitive and mental health in youth: A systematic review of mechanisms
Lubans et al. (2016), Pediatrics. A review of how physical activity can support young people's thinking skills and mental health, including how they see themselves.
A national experiment reveals where a growth mindset improves achievement
Yeager et al. (2019), Nature. Part of the mixed-results mindset research noted below.
To what extent and under which circumstances are growth mind-sets important to academic achievement? Two meta-analyses
Sisk et al. (2018), Psychological Science. Part of the mixed-results mindset research noted below.
Growth-mindset research has mixed results. We use the idea ("effort grows ability") as encouragement, not as a promise.
The impact of enhancing students' social and emotional learning: A meta-analysis of school-based universal interventions
Durlak et al. (2011), Child Development. Across more than 200 school programs, teaching social and emotional skills improved students' skills, behavior, and academic performance.
Promoting positive youth development through school-based social and emotional learning interventions: A meta-analysis of follow-up effects
Taylor et al. (2017), Child Development. Benefits of social and emotional learning programs were still measurable months to years later.
What works in character education
Berkowitz et al. (2007), Journal of Research in Character Education. A review of decades of character-education studies, summarizing which approaches showed positive effects.
A review of 50 years of research on naturally occurring family routines and rituals: Cause for celebration?
Fiese et al. (2002), Journal of Family Psychology. Regular family routines and rituals are linked with children's health, school adjustment, and stronger family relationships.
Correlations between family meals and psychosocial well-being among adolescents
Eisenberg et al. (2004), Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine. Teens who ate more meals with their families reported less substance use and fewer depressive symptoms, and had better grades (an association, not proof of cause).
The development of purpose during adolescence
Damon et al. (2003), Applied Developmental Science. Defines purpose as a lasting aim that matters to the young person and to the world beyond them, and explains why it matters in growing up.
Purpose, hope, and life satisfaction in three age groups
Bronk et al. (2009), The Journal of Positive Psychology. Having found a purpose was linked with greater life satisfaction in adolescents, emerging adults, and adults.
Purpose as a form of identity capital for positive youth adjustment
Burrow et al. (2011), Developmental Psychology. In young people, a sense of purpose was tied to a clearer sense of identity and better well-being.
A meta-analysis of the relation of parental involvement to urban elementary school student academic achievement
Jeynes (2005), Urban Education. Parent involvement was linked with higher achievement for elementary students. Everyday things like parenting style and expectations mattered.
The relationship between parental involvement and urban secondary school student academic achievement: A meta-analysis
Jeynes (2007), Urban Education. The same link held for middle and high school students.
Parental involvement in middle school: A meta-analytic assessment of the strategies that promote achievement
Hill et al. (2009), Developmental Psychology. For middle schoolers, talking with kids about goals, expectations, and why school matters was more strongly tied to achievement than helping with homework.
Effects of parental involvement on academic achievement: A meta-synthesis
Wilder (2014), Educational Review. Across nine meta-analyses, parent involvement and achievement were positively related. Parents' expectations showed the strongest link.
How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world
Lally et al. (2010), European Journal of Social Psychology. Repeating a behavior daily in the same situation made it more automatic. It took anywhere from 18 to 254 days (about 66 on average), and missing one day didn't undo progress. This study was with adults.
Making health habitual: The psychology of "habit-formation" and general practice
Gardner et al. (2012), British Journal of General Practice. A plain explanation of habit-building: pick one simple action, tie it to the same cue, and repeat it.
Psychology of habit
Wood et al. (2016), Annual Review of Psychology. Habits form through repetition in a stable setting, so the cue starts the behavior and willpower matters less.
Public frameworks and laws that call for the same things the 7 Pillars practice at home: family engagement, character, social-emotional skills, and healthy routines. Listing them doesn't mean these agencies endorse the 7 Pillars of Winning.
ESSA Title I, Section 1116: Parent and Family Engagement
(20 U.S.C. § 6318). Schools receiving Title I funds must jointly develop a parent and family engagement policy and a school-parent compact... Read more
Florida Statutes § 1003.42, Required Instruction
(character education, s. 1003.42(2)(t), and life skills, s. 1003.42(2)(o)4). Calls for character education on kindness, honesty, respect, and cooperation, plus life skills like self-management and resiliency... Read more
CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning (the CASEL 5).
Five competencies, from self-management to responsible decision-making, including self-discipline, gratitude, and a sense of purpose... Read more
Head Start Parent, Family, and Community Engagement (PFCE) Framework
(U.S. HHS, Office of Head Start). A research-based guide naming seven family outcomes, including positive parent-child relationships and families as lifelong educators... Read more
Strengthening Families Protective Factors Framework
(Center for the Study of Social Policy). Five protective factors, from parental resilience to children's social and emotional competence... Read more
Protective Factors Approaches in Child Welfare
(Child Welfare Information Gateway, U.S. HHS/ACF, issue brief, 2020). Explains protective factors as family and community strengths that buffer risk and support healthy development... Read more
Dual Capacity-Building Framework for Family-School Partnerships, Version 2
(Mapp & Bergman, 2019; originally published with the U.S. Department of Education). A compass for building the skills families and educators need to partner on student success... Read more
National PTA National Standards for Family-School Partnerships
(updated 2022). Six standards, from "Welcome All Families" to "Collaborate with Community," for home-school partnership... Read more
Physical Activity Guidelines for Americans, 2nd Edition
(U.S. HHS, 2018). Evidence-based guidance recommending that children and teens get at least 60 minutes of physical activity a day... Read more
This page shares research for general education only. It isn't medical, psychological, or legal advice.
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